In general, yes. There are many valuable life-skills to be learned
in the martial arts school. Among these are: learning to control aggression, the development of self-respect and self-control,
a focus on fitness for life, as well as learning effective self-defense skills. Reputable schools teach students to avoid
confrontation and violence if at all possible.
Proper martial arts instruction should always focus on teaching the individual control - control of self and, if necessary,
control of a harmful threat. Anger, cruelty and revenge have absolutely no place in the martial arts.
What about injuries, and all the violence in martial
arts?
It's important to remember that television and the movies often portray martial arts in a distorted,
violent way. In real life, nothing could be farther from the truth. If you've ever seen one of those full contact, no-holds-barred
or "Ultimate Fighting" matches on TV, relax - that's not what you're signing your kids up for. Most schools
require full safety gear when sparring, and allow only light contact to sharply defined areas. As a result, injuries are rare.
I worry about my
child turning into a bully…
The
martial arts simply are not for bullies. The hard work and repetition of classes tend to weed out those who might merely wish
to learn how to hurt others. There may be some bad martial arts schools or instructors who encourage abusive behavior, but
most consider their primary responsibility to be character development, not aggression development. Abusive behavior should
not be tolerated inside, or outside the martial arts school, and most instructors take their responsibility seriously. Some
will periodically request feedback from parents and schoolteachers about the student's behavior outside the martial arts
school.
What style is
best for children?
This can best be answered by considering the desired outcomes of the training The main concern
with children in the martial arts should be the knowledge, experience, and integrity of the teacher and the school. Since
the joints and connective tissues of children are more vulnerable to injury than those of adults, be sure to keep this in
mind, and discuss it with the instructor when interviewing a school. Schools that allow aggressive joint locks to be applied
to children, or that don't train them to avoid snapping or hyper-extending joints should be eliminated from your consideration.
Mid-Valley
Martial Arts offers
classes for all ages. We believe Mixed Martial Arts can be beneficial to everyone, regardless of age, or ability. We have
a history of physicians recommending our program for conditions such as ADD, ADHD, Cerebral Palsy, and Aspergers Syndrome
(a mild form of autism). We also have had some experience teaching the hearing and vision-impaired.
Our instructors are mindful of the physical and psychological differences in younger
students –We offer age-specific classes for kids of all ages, and we have even custom designed one just for 4-6 year
olds. While these classes also teach values and fundamental martial arts principles, we mix in a healthy dose of fun exercises
and group games.
What
else will my child learn at Mid-Valley Martial Arts ?
While self-defense may be a big reason many people start taking martial arts, it
is actually one of the least of the many benefits the martial arts have to offer. Some of the others that our programs specifically
focus on are:
Confidence
Martial arts training, belt tests and tournaments are intensely challenging and rewarding. Kids who learn how to
face these tense situations develop confidence that they will benefit from their entire life. Good martial arts instructors
remind their students that, having faced and triumphed over such challenges, they have nothing to prove to anyone. This gives
martial arts students - even children - the confidence to walk away from confrontation, taunting, foolish dares and so on.
Self-discipline
Imagine trying to get a bunch of 4 - 6 year-olds to stand at attention like a row of statues! How about getting teens
to do chores at home, and not to complain or talk back? This is one of our goals, and part of our partnership with the parents
of our students. Students quickly learn to listen, pay attention, and to work hard. Normally hyper, distracted kids can learn
to concentrate and stick with a task to a degree many adults might envy.
Respect
Trash talk, mouthing off to officials, foul language and the like have,
sadly, trickled down from professional sports into college, high school, and even little league sports. We do not tolerate
this sort of behavior. We teach our students to treat one another, the instructors, and their own families with respect. The
same attitude and respect shown at the martial arts school should also be demonstrated at home, and we encourage parents to
let us know how things are going.
Fitness
Game Boy, the Internet, television and other forms
of passive entertainment are turning our kids into a nation of couch potatoes. Children who study martial arts aren't
among them, though. Our workouts are designed for cardio endurance, as well as proficiency in technique. Our students typically
score above average on fitness tests given in their academic schools. At Mid-Valley Martial Arts
they are expected to train hard, and they learn to value fitness as a life habit.
Relationship building
Many parents cheer their kids on in a sport. But how many
parents can practice and compete in the same sport with their kids? Mid-Valley Martial Arts encourages family members to attend classes together.
Not only family relationships, but also quality friendships are developed in the school. What better group of friends for
your child, than other kids who are learning the same self-discipline and values? Our goal is to maintain a family environment
where people train together, encourage each other, and make new friends.
Self-defense
Self-defense is only partly about physical skill. The other major
part is a combination of attitude and brains — the courage and confidence to stand up to bullying or violence and the
wisdom to foresee and avoid it. Though we teach our students countless ways to overcome physical conflict, we also teach conflict
resolution. The best way to protect yourself, and others, is to stop a conflict before it gets physical. Only when there is
no other alternative should physical self-defense be required.
If you have any other questions please call
us at 503-982-8054
God Bless
Steve Newport
Coach/ Owner
Mid-Valley
Martial Arts